A television host was asked what his favorite song is, and why. I don’t recall his answers, other than that I hadn’t heard of most of the songs or artists. It’s that age thing, again.
I asked my husband that question, thinking that, as a music lover, and someone with musical abilities, his answers would start a deeper conversation. But he just said he likes so many it wouldn’t be possible to name a favorite. So, I asked myself, and discovered some things about me.
Anything that Kris Kristofferson wrote. Because he tells the truth.
Anything sung by Nat King Cole. Because he sounds like velvet.
Amazing Grace, when played on bagpipes. Because I’m part Scotch-Irish.
The Rose, sung by Bette Midler. Because she sings like she believes it.
Taps, when played at sunset on Memorial Day, at the cemetery next to the Dry Valley Church. Because I honor those from the past who made possible our lives in the present.
I’ve been thinking about favorites. What do they reveal about us, especially the “why” part? It doesn’t need to be limited to music. Who are your favorite people, and why?
Your heroes, and why?
Colors, and why? Was it because your mom wore blue a lot, and it’s imprinted on your best memories of her?
Who are your favorite authors, and why? Because Michener and Louis L’Amour were such careful researchers? Because Craig Johnson’s characters seem so real?
What’s your favorite quote? Why, and who said it?
What’s your favorite food, and why? Something Grandma taught you to make?
What’s the place you go when you need to sort out what won’t let you sleep? Why there?
What’s the best advice you were ever given, and why? Did it change your life?
I’m pretty sure most of us don’t know ourselves very well. No wonder we have trouble figuring out other people. We haven’t bothered to ask the important questions, especially the “why”.
Here’s your assignment for the week. Ask yourself about a favorite. Ask yourself why. And then ask one other person those questions. You might be amazed at what you learn, which is good, because knowledge promotes understanding.
Meet me here next week and meanwhile, do your best. Someone might like it.