In a general sense, just being alive isn’t living. That sweeping statement may rub some people wrong, but I have yet to meet anybody who honestly believes that if you don’t have a purpose, can’t find a reason to face the day, have trouble finding glory in the gift that is given to us with each sunrise then something needs to change.
Life has an uncanny ability to take your hard-earned plans, that you drew so eloquently on your perceived blueprint, and throw a wrench right in the works. Perhaps you were lucky enough to simply have a corner torn off the page, but some have had the entire drawing crumpled up and thrown in the trash. The question then becomes not what just happened but how do you choose to deal with it. What will be your response? Life is full of choices and here is an opportunity to make a concerted effort to learn how to keep living.
An often-suggested response is to seek help from others and get counsel from sources outside your current circle. Then in walks a horse. Understandably, East Point Horspice is a little (well, OK, a lot) heavy on the use of horses for mental clarity and using the relationship you develop with them to help you defend from the challenges life throws at you, but similar benefits can be found with other non-human animals. Another favorite at EPH is our best friend, the dog, but that is for another article. Now, back to the corral and the willing therapist with the long ears, shaggy coat (this time of year) and who walks around on middle finger every day. Previous articles have described the horse’s unmatched skills of intuition and through their honest responses to your energy and attitude will forever be that person we’ve all encountered that were brave enough to tell us exactly how it is, without the sugar coating, even when maybe we didn’t want to hear it. The choice you make is whether or not to listen.
Now consider this: the EPH equines are here because they were not able to continue existing in their previous situations. Each one has a unique circumstance, but the bottom line is they are here to keep living and through that process, have regained another purpose. These rescue horses, when given the opportunity, are rescuing us. Becoming injured to a point where they are unable to perform at previous levels, or simply growing old, has not become a death sentence. Using that as an example, this relationship can be transferred to our lives and we may all benefit from appreciating what is being brought to the table. Our four-legged friends wish very much to enhance our lives through their giving nature and willingness to be a source of comfort and love as we navigate our struggles. All this is offered with nothing asked for in return.
While we naively assume that we are the givers in these relationships, stand back and realize that it is us, the humans who provide room and board to these wonderful creatures, who are the true takers as our fuzzy friends have become wise enough to choose to live happily, accept what life offers, and be gracious enough to share that with us. If you’re in need of a kind eye, a fuzzy ear to listen, or a horse-sized hug, contact EPH at (308) 762-3848. The life you improve may be your own.